Overview
The main reading
A fluctuating sign, your swings from self-confidence to self-sabotage can be frequent. This is in part due to an inner perfectionist who longs to do things ‘by the book.’ You can never achieve this, and even if you do, not all the time. Accept your limitations, be drawn to growth but don’t beat yourself up if you fall below your high expectations. Tempering what you expect of yourself and others are vital to satisfaction. Otherwise, you will feel chronically disappointed, and even angry. At its extreme, you may alienate others. In love, you may feel defensive and vulnerable. Work on sharing your needs with others. They can help you. No-one has to do it all alone.